How Do You Get Over A Break Up? A Guy’s Best Guide

Getting over a break up is hard, we’ve all been there. This doesn’t mean it’s impossible as there’s countless things you can do to remedy the pain, you’re in. Thankfully for you, you’ve found our article, so let’s get to it.

Get Rid of Everything

No, don’t throw all your belongings out. You should get rid of anything that reminds you of your ex. There’s probably a multitude of things like this in your home. This is the best way to heal as you won’t be reminded of them at every turn.

What you should be doing is getting rid of their belongings as well. If they left a bunch of stuff and are not coming to get them, don’t hesitate to throw everything in the trash.

Delete Them Off the Internet

Now that we ran through step 1 of the process, step 2 is equally as important. You should go through your phone and delete them off your camera roll, and anything that has their pictures/videos saved.

You should go the extra mile and get rid of them from your social media accounts and even block them. You don’t want to see them happy while you’re not, do you? Blocking them would also prevent you from stalking them. We’re all guilty of this and frankly, this is one of the most toxic things you could do to yourself.

Don’t Be Afraid to Cry

You just lost a major part of your life. This warrants you crying, screaming, kicking as much as you want. If you want to be depressed for a week or two, that’s totally understandable. However, you shouldn’t make this the new norm.

Give yourself a period of time to get your feelings out. After this period has passed, start to think about the future and take steps to move on.

If you really want to (I recommend it) you could see a therapist. He’s a professional so he’ll help you process everything as smoothly and quickly as possible. This would help you become the person you once were.

Have Fun

If you don’t realize life’s great outside of your ex, you’re going to be miserable for a very, very long time. You should get together with your friends and family and do a range of exciting things. If you’ve always wanted to go sky diving, now’s the best time. If you’ve always wanted to travel, do it.

You can spend your days with your friends, being young and enjoying life. If you go through sites like, you’ll see there are exciting strip clubs that can be pretty entertaining too.

Find Someone New

As they say, the only way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Why don’t you put this to the test and date a meet new people? Your ex may have been a pit-stop in your life, leading you to meet the love of your life. After all, apps like Tinder are readily available.

Make It into A Lesson

Lastly, think about the time the two of you spent together as a lesson. You learned a lot about yourself which is going to help you in the future, especially in terms of other relationships.

The above points would help you get over someone the best, so what’re you waiting for?

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